A Partner's Perspective

My name is Camille. I have 3 kids ( 4.5  -  3  -  1  years old  )  and am a 2010 MBA Partner.

The first thing, and I think the most critical, is that WE decided to do an MBA ! I am really proud of my husband and I know that, to be happy, he needs me and the children to be happy as well.

WE HAVE A GREAT PARTNERS GROUP

At home, it is not really a "great, fun" life ... house cleaning, cooking, making sure he has everything ... I think that all partners spend a lot of time alone at home, especially in the evening ! BUT we have a really great partner group !!! We organize a lot of things : Friday lunch, movies at IMD, night outs, baby-sittings, trips to Vevey, Geneve, Evian, Gym Class, Yoga class, playdate with children, language classes ...and people are really helpful !

But all those things fill one day per week, maybe two but clearly not enough for a full week ... We are not on vacation and, anyway, vacation without our partner is not really fun !!! So I try to be busy every days ... park, friends, sport ...

IMD IS LIKE A FAMILY

Our partners work a lot ... they can be free a few hours per week-end but it is not all the time ... I think it depends on your husband and on his working team ! Everytime I go to IMD on Sunday (at 9am...4pm...10pm ...), people are working ... and it is actually the same every day! But IMD is like a family and everyone takes care of every one ! Partners, students, teachers ...

I try to organize dinner, restaurants on Saturday evenings ... to be there when he is at home ... to be free when he has time, when he needs to talk ...It is really difficult but he enjoys everything at IMD and I know that, in a few months, our "family life " will be back !!!

SET GOALS FOR YOURSELF

Another really important part is you need a goal for your year : learn French, English ... run 20km of Lausanne, find a job ... you need to have one to grow in parallel of your partner: with 3 kids, I am enrolled in a photography class and am looking to start a child psychology program (I am a primary school teacher)!

I am still alive and not planning to get divorced !!! So it is not TOO bad of a year ;)

Overall, it is a tough year, but a very rich year: you make so many new friends from all over the world and get to grow a lot yourself!

Partner of the Week: Nicole Martins

Brazilian Idol

Name: Nicole Martins
Age: 26
Parner: Jonatas Melo 
Hometown: Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. Born and always lived there.
Degree: Studied Economics (Bachelor). This year, studying marketing.
Career: 5 years at Exon. Then worked for one year luxury holding that owns fashion brands last year
Favorite song: "From This Moment" Shania Twain



Y&N: What is it your favorite song ?
NM: A song that always come to my mind...like when I'm washing the dishes, ironing, just walking by myself... It comes...When I was younger, I loved music. I had singing classes. I used to play in a group. There is this program in Brazil like American Idol (Fama) and there was a casting in Rio. And I said, « ok i'll got there, and let's see if i can sing someting ».We went by car with my best friend.  And we decided for this song. I didn't know the lyrics by heart, so  I put the CD on in the car, and while drinving to this place, we were singing the song without stopping, on repeat. Over and over again. When I arrived, the guitarist was not there anymore, so I couldn't record. I was so upset. But, it was a fun experience and I think that's why it comes to my mind all the time.

Y&N: You would have liked to have been a singer? 
NM: No. I had some obstacles. I didn't have the support. I criticized myself too much. But I love dancing as well, and some times I dream of being on Broadway and dancing and singing at the same time. 

Y&N: Tell us about your passion for dance...
NM: I've been dancing since I was 4 years old. I did classic ballet, jazz, modern, tap, hiphop and also lambada, a specific Brazilian dance. I used to go to contests, and I had this great costume to dance lambada.  My favorite style of dance would be Broadway: when we have the music and the dances.

Y&N: Do you have any regrets ? 
NM: We always wonder what would happen if we had done something different. But I've made choices, and I have to keep my choices. Maybe, one thing I would have done is study architecture, instead of economics, because I have this artistic side and I love math, as well. But, maybe when I get older, I'll study a little bit.

Y&N: A favorite city...
NM: I love Barcelona. But I think each place has its unique architecture and I enjoy each... going to Paris and walking along the street is excellent. Being here in Switzerland is interesting, as well...Spain, of course. Brazil, the architecture there is too messy. They don't have a style. I want to go to Asia to check it out.

Y&N: Do you prefer the city or the country ?
NM: Both. I like to be in a city with natural spaces. Like parks so I can be in contact with nature. Also the city, because I like to do things. I like to go out, and have everything close by. 

Y&N: How did you react when Jonatas got accepted into IMD? 
NM: I followed him from the begining. It wasn't a bad surprise. I got really excited. In 2008, we came to Europe,  to get to know the schools and to know the cities that helped him to make a decision. At the same time, it's difficult to leave your job and your life, but I think it's so worthy and I'm so happy to be here and having this international experience.

Y&N: What were your expectations ?
NM: As I knew Lausanne before, I'd say that my expectations are exactly what we are having now. I thought I would find a job, besides the course. I see that it's really difficult for Brazilians to find work here. And I'm now wondering if maybe I should volunteer or do research part time... because i want to spend  time in Lausanne. I think this is the expectation that was not met. But, Lausanne is a really a lovely city. Small, but you have things to do, it's not boring. I really enjoy the group, i'm happy to know so many people from all over the world. Everyone is so nice.

Y&N: Favorite place in Lausanne...
NM: I really like Nomade . I'd like to go back there and just have some wine. And Starbucks too. I like to go there listen to some music, and have a coffee. And the lake... Just walking by the lake is fine...

Y&N: Something different or strange about Switzerland? 
NM: For the environnment, I' d say that the lake, the mountain, the water, and the green park is exactly what we have in Rio... not the same but it's the same atmosphere. People are nice, but I'd say that we are more polite. When you're going inside the lift, we ususally wait for the people who are arrived first, to go inside first, and then we go and before that we wait for the people inside to get out. And here they don't seem to wait too much. They just go bumping into you inside the lift. This is something that annoys me a little bit.

Y&N: Where do you see yourself next year or in 5 years ?
NM: I'm just reflecting on it. Next year, i don't have a crystal ball to figure it out, but... I see myself in 5 years professionally succeeding, with kids -probably 2 or 3- (my husband is looking at me saying more).
I will be happy with my family in a beautiful house.

Y&N: Where ?
NM: I don't know. Anywhere, where I could be happy with the place and have a garden. I like gardens, although I tried to plant sometimes, but they just die so I try to talk to them.

Y&N: Yourself in 3 words ?
NM: Romantic, committed, and I like to help people...

Y&N: If you could have dinner with anyone, celebrity, dead, alive, etc, who would it be? 
NM: I think it would be nice to have everybody that I know and like together...

Y&N: Favorite movie ?
NM: I love Disney. I'd say my favorite ever is « Beauty and the Beast ». I could see it repeatdly. I know the songs, I like to sing the songs. I also love Gladiator, I like these kind of historic movies.

Y&N: A place in Brazil to visit...
NM: Rio for sure... A beautiful city... although it's a litlle bit dangerous. If you know where to go, there are so many beautiful places. It's wonderful. Also the northeast of Brazil is like a paradise. If you want to relax and forget all the troubles and energize yourself... go there !
Sao Paulo too is a nice city... For dinner, the restaurants here are amazing. You can find any food you want in the best restaurants there.

In Rio

Y&N: Favorite food ?
NM: I like fechuada. With dark beans and meat. Very heavy. After that, you will feel very sleepy. We used to eat it during the weekend. It's good.

Fechuada

Y&N: What do you miss in Rio ?
NM: I miss a lot the japanese restaurant in front of our apartment. We used to go there with Jonatas, and it was very good. I miss our apartment, we had our video games, -I'm a Mario addict-, our DVDs, our great balcony where we used to have lunch during the weekend together, listening to some music.

Their apartment in Rio

Y&N: Portuguese ?
NM: "Carpe Diem...Nós temos que viver o presente porque ele é único. Mas também temos que sonhar e lutar pelos nossos sonhos."

Y&N: You speak a lot of languages...
NM: I love studying languages. And I think I'll be like 100 years old studying a new language, maybe esperanto or something like this. Each one has something that attracts me: Spanish is happy...French is romantic...English is universal...Portuguese is my mother tongue...what makes me feel comfortable...German is a challenge... That's it !

Y&N: French ?
NM: Je suis très heureuse d'être ici, d'avoir cette expérience et d'avoir connu tout le monde qu'il y a ici...

Partner of the Week: Lety Silva

Happy Mexican Mommy !

Name: Lety Silva

Age: 30 years

Partner: Jorge Rodela

Born: in Monterrey (northern Mexico). Lived in Poland, UK for 2 years, Spain where her 2 girls were born.

Children: Paulina (2.5 years) and Monica (10 months).

Favorite song: Amazed by Lonestar. This is the song we danced at our wedding. At my gradiuaton party, Jorge sang this song to me while we danced and i said this is the song i want for my wedding with him.

Y&N: How did you react when you learn Jorge was accepted to IMD ?

LS: First of all, it was  a surprise. He got the call on his birthday, it was his best present ever! I was really happy and proud because it's not easy to get in. At the same time, I was also nervous. I didn't know what to expect of Lausanne. How will it be with 2 children, almost on my own? I was a little bit afraid, but today I'm relieved.

Y&N: Do you feel European after living in Poland, UK, Spain and now Switzerland?

LS: No, I'm REALLY Mexican !!! and I'm really proud of it. I really like the lifestyle here in Europe. The views, the chance to walk everywhere. In Mexico, you go everywhere in the car. You spend a lot of time in the car, but here you can walk everywhere.The public transportation is amazing.

Y&N: Is it better to raise the girls in Madrid or here in Lausanne ?

LS: Maybe it was easier in Madrid, because we speak Spanish. I had a car and they were younger. Now, here with the weather, at the begining it was a problem. Paulina always said « Oh it's too cold, it's too cold, i don't want to go outside ! » But now she loves the snow, she loves going outside.

 Paulina and her bicycle

Y&N: Where do you see yourself next year ? In five years..

LS: I have no idea. I would like to definitely go back to Mexico, but  maybe we'll spend 3 or 4 more years in Europe. Anything can happen.

Y&N: What do you miss the most about Mexico ?

Well, my family, my friends. I talk with my mom and dad everyday on Skype. They like talking with the girls, seeing them. But also the food, the tortillas, elote, the tacos. I usually find stores that sell Mexican food, but I haven't found one yet!

Her favorite food and drink

Y&N: Favorite food or drink ?

LS: As an alcoholic, tequila. I love margaritas ! For me it's the best ! My favorite food is arrachera from Mexico. It is the meat you put on barbecue with guacamole and quesadillas! 

Y&N: Where in Mexico do you recommend we visit?

LS: If you like the beach, the sun then Playa del Carmen. I haven't been myself but my friends were and told me it's amazing. The water is really crystal clear, the views are beautiful. You can have a great time there.

Vamos a la Playa... del Carmen!

Y&N: Do you plan to resume your job? 

LS: Hopefully. We are planning to have another kid. After that, I hope I can start working again. I used to work in Mexico in a company called Danfoss. I was in the purchasing department and worked as a buyer and I really enjoyed. I got to be in contact with a lot of people and I like to talk with everybody. So it was the perfect job for me. I also like shopping!

  

Y&N: The best places to go shopping in Lausanne ?

LS: I don't have time to go shopping but I hope to find some good places soon.

Y&N: Can you tell us a place you like in Lausanne?

LS: Parc de Milan is amazing... The kids enjoy  it a lot ! It's just 2 blocks from my house, so it's really convenient. And also for a coffee, I like the Hotel d'Angleterre with the big terrace you can see the lake and the Alps. I've been only once on a sunny day, having my coffee, looking at the lake, at the mountains. It was perfect !!!

Y&N: Something strange or unexpected about you...

LS: When people meet me, they think that I'm really serious. I don't know why, maybe my face. But I really like parties, really like to make friends, and I really love dancing! I learned belly dancing and hip hop when I was in the UK. I really like dancing a lot to Cumbias, Tex-Mex, I love dancing to this kind of music.

Y&N: How would you describe yourself in 3 words?

LS: Happy. Friendly. Responsible.

Y&N: If you could have dinner with anyone, dead or alive, who would you choose?

LS: The Pope Jean-Paul II. I was planning to go to the Vatican just before he died. If i could have the chance to meet him, it would be great. When I see pictures of him, I just felt peace, calm.

I'm catholic. I really like to follow religion, especially in the season of Eastern.

Y&N: Can you tell us something in your native language?

LS: Estamos muy contentos de estar en Lausanne. Apoyando en Jorge en su MBA y esperamos tener un ano muy bueno con todos ustedes.

Y&N: And something in French...

LS: I've just started my French course this week. Je suis Mexicaine, bonjour, merci beaucoup.

The happy family!

Partner of the Week: Craig Haydon

Funny guy with a big heart who doesn't take himself too seriously, and likes long walks along the lake... ;)

Name: Craig Haydon

Age: 39

Birth Place:  South Africa, but grew up Yorkshire, UK

Profesion : Tutors adults who are unemployed, some who are in rehabilatation from drug or alcohol abuse,  many have disabilities, ranging in age anywhere from 16 to 65 years old. He designs  government training programs to get them back to work. Before this, he managed call centers, worked on cruise ships, was a hotel manager in a resort in Spain, among many other things!

Favorite Song: Queen, Winter's Tale from the Made in Heaven Album



Y&N: You have traveled a lot. Where do you recommend we go?
CH: Egypt. We went on a cruise on the Nile to see the Pyramids. Absolutely gorgeous. It was so magical, because you're cruising at night and you wake up in different places. We were going to ride Camels, but when I saw the camel, I changed my mind and took a boat instead. It was much better!
Brazil is on the top of my list, also.

South Africa is absolutely amazing. I went in 2003, for 2 weeks, but I stayed for 7 weeks. There is a National Safari park, Gruka, is exactly the same size as Wales. It's huge. I went to Johannesburg and did all the west coast, to Cape town, you drive through the vineyards, and then you drive through the desert, and then suddenly you're driving into snow...It's absolutely unbelievable... it's like 20 countries in one...
If partners want to go this year, because MBA students are going to go, I would recommend to go at least one week before or to stay a week after, because you need that amount of time... And your gonna need a tour...and a car... The most amazing place to be in the world.

Y&N: How do you react when you realized that you were going to move to Switzerland?
CH: I am used to moving for work. He told me «Oh, we're going to Switzerland. » «What the hell are you going there?» « I'm gonna do an MBA.» «Why? You are a doctor, why to go into business?» But, I supported him 200%. So we flew here for the interview. And I thought «Oh, this is a wonderful place!». We came at the end of the summer, and it was gorgeous.  But personally, I prefer French people, they are so much more helpful, so much more polite, so much nicer people. But I enjoy Lausanne, even if I get bored. The only thing I don't like here is the dog shit. I am sick of it. In England, you would get fined. You don't see dog shit on the street.  I go for a walk around the lake every morning and my knees are starting to hurt because I have to walk around all of the dog shit.

"Ahh, perfect, right in Craig's path."- Dog

Y&N: What do you think your life will be like next year? In 5 years?
CH: No idea. Not a clue. I don't care where we live. I just want somewhere warm. I love the sound of crickets at night. I would like Adzuan to have a job that we can see each other. In Wales we used to take a car and go to the lake, to the mountains just for a week-end. I miss that. The only thing we do together now is pay bills. On Saturdays we go and pay bills. Also, possibly, starting a new program, and finishing my book. I'm not motivated at that moment to do it.

Y&N: You already wrote a book ?
CH: Yes, it was printed into series in the newspaper, My first book was a murder mystery. I'd like the next one to be printed as a book. I thought having this view (of the mountains and lake) from my desk, the inspiration would come. I have more time to write now but I am thinking about changing the story and for the story to take place here.

View from Craig's Bedroom Window

Y&N: Have you always loved writing?
CH: I love writing. At school, I wrote a short story about my summer break. I was 12 and my teacher told me I was a genius. She told me that my short story could have been printed then because of how vivid my descriptions were, etc. I love to observe and people watch.

Y&N: Do you think your book could be adapted into a movie?
CH: No, it's not good enough. I'm not sure James Cameron would do it. But maybe a series. But Leonardo Di Caprio will have to be in it. And I'll have to meet him. And he will have to be naked a lot.

"I would love to be in your movie!"

Y&N: Can You Describe Yourself in 3 words?
CH: Crazy, even before my accident... Fun-loving and always there for people... Sometimes I do too much...

Y&N: Can you tell us about the accident? 
CH: I got very strange, weird after my accident...13 years ago. It opened my eyes. I was hit by a motorcycle. I almost died...3 times... It took 9 months to recover. I'm completely fine now, but I lost my memories of that day.

Y&N: What is Your Favorite TV series?
CH: The Golden Girls. An American TV show from the late 80's. Four old women that lived together in a house. One is complete slut- she sleeps with anything that moves. One is very level-headed, very strong, she's like a man, looks like one too. Then, Rose, who is naive and finally, Ma, a very strong Sicilian woman, who is the oldest. It's absolutely hilarious.



Y&N: The person you would like to meet...
CH: Freddie Mercury. He was quite unique. I just grew up with Queen. I know everything about him. My favorite album, Made in Heaven, was the one he made just before he died. He recorded it in Montreux, here in Switzerland. The cover of the album is in Montreux. If you listen to the voice, you can't tell this man is about to die. He has such a powerful voice. He was a very insecure, shy man. I saw him during the Magic Tour in 1983, in Wembley.

Loves Queen and everyone in his family loves to sing, including him. 

His mother was a soprano for Tom Jones and Shirley Bassey, among others

Partners Video: Happy Valentine's Day!

Love from Chile, Brazil, and Paris*

  "I am in Love with a Viennese" "Wait... I'm Chilean!"

 

Camila and Dino were set up on a blind date by friends. After the first date, Camila thought Dino was OK but did not realize she had already fallen in love. Dino seemed to be very interested but was leaving for business in Vienna and promised to call and ask Camila out when he got back in a few weeks. When Dino returned, he did call Camila, but not to ask her out. To tell her he was in love with a Viennese woman. Even though they had only had one date, Camila felt her heart break and thought she lost the  man of her dreams. A month later, Dino invited Camila to his birthday party and she decided to go. Dino soon admitted that he had made a mistake and the two started dating. Six months later, they moved in together. After ten months together, there was a proposal. Both think the other proposed, but either way, the two were married seven months later in Chile, this November, just before moving to Switzerland!

"Destined to be Together."- Carol's father

Carolina and Gustavo met when Carol was 16. Their parents were friends with each other. The two become friends and a year later, they went to a party together. Gustavo dropped off Carol at her home and asked if he could call her later that night. It was already very late, but Carol said sure. He called when he got home and told her that he was in love with her and wanted to date her. She said yes and the next day, he came to her home to ask her father permission to date his daughter. What a gentleman! The two dated for 5 years, while Carol finished college. Gustavo proposed one day at her family's home-- presumably he asked her father first--she of course said yes. Her father later told them that he had had a dream and always knew they were destined to be together. The two have been married for 2 years now!

The city of Love

Yann and Max met on Valentine's Day during a singles party. After a night of dancing and mingling, the two finally met. Max offered Yann a ride home and they exchanged a kiss and numbers. Max called Yann to set up a date shortly after. They went to the Petit Palais museum, then to a cafe for tea and dessert and later that evening to dinner. The date ended three days later, but their love was just beginning. This Valentine's Day they will celebrate their fourth year together!

*These are just excerpts, to hear more about these stories, set up a coffee :) 

Love from Mexico, Japan and Brazil*

Karen and Juan Martin went to the same university and were only one year apart, but they never met. Juan Martin moved to Texas for a job and Karen to Mexico City. A few years later, Juan Martin moved to Mexico City and was in search of new friends and a place to live. Meanwhile, Karen's friend was married to Juan Martin's friend and suggested that Karen meet with Juan Martin to help acquaint him with the city and maybe find him a room to rent. Karen happened to have a room available to rent in her apartment that she shared with her younger sister and offered it to Juan Martin. The first time they met was when she showed him her apartment. He agreed to rent the room and less than a year and a half later, they were married and moving to Lausanne!

Love And Text

Akane and Mitsuru met in Tokyo and dated for a year, then broke up. Got back together for a year, and broke up. This pattern continued. The last time they broke up, they decided to not marry each other and Akane thought they were over for good. They had been apart for a year and a half since this decision when Akane received a text message from Mitsuru asking her to marry him. She wasn't sure she understood the message so she texted him back to clarify. He clarified, that yes, he wanted to marry her. She responded OK. At the time, the two were living in different cities and Akane was heading on a trip abroad with her mother for one week. It was difficult for Akane to get to Tokyo so, after one more week after her trip, she finally went to see her fiance. It had been 1 year 6 months and 2 weeks until they were back together! Less than 9 months later they were married. They have been married for 1 year and 2 months!

"I Married My Boss" aka Love Letter from Italy

Nicole worked for Exxon with Jonatas in Brazil. She was assigned a project underneath him and soon they became good friends, although they both had already fallen in love, they felt constrained by the work environment to keep it to themselves. She eventually moved into another position underneath a new manager, but in the same department as Jonatas. They continued to be too close to each other at the office to confess their love. Nicole went on vacation to Europe and emailed Jonatas about Italy, a place he loved and often spoke of. He wrote her back an email in Italian and the conversation never ended.  A week after her vacation, the two finally declared their love for each other. Two years later, they were married and now live happily ever after in Lausanne.

*Stories edited for  brevity, for more details set up a coffee :)